Ahead of the holidays, in the midst of a very busy week and rounding out an uncertain couple of years, let’s all admit self-care *not optional.* I’m excited, exhausted, and feeling all the things. I know I can’t be alone. It goes without saying how utterly grateful I am for all that I have, but as life ebbs and flows so it’s important to tune in and take care of yourself. Here are some of my favorite practical ways to check in and take care of yourself this week/month/year.

Warm up

Since we moved to Arkansas, I’m still getting reacquainted with seasons. We’re currently embracing the fall chill that changes the colors of our new suburban backyard. In general and in Ayurvedic terms, Autumn is known to be cold, rough, dry, windy, and erratic. Believe it or not, there is a reason all of those warming herbs (talking to you PSLs) are popular in the fall. Warming up from the inside out with soups and teas is an easy and quick way to do so. Take it from someone who enjoyed both today – and got so warm I had to take off a layer! Other personal favorites include a date with a heated blanket, a nice long hot bath with essential oils, and if you can, nothing beats a good old fashion bear hug with someone you love.

Zen in

It’s really easy to zone out, but when you catch yourself craving a scroll, try to zen IN instead! Pro tip: keep your phone away from your bed at night. Curb your craving with some extra time with your S.O. or yourself and a book. 🙂

• Listen to an inspirational podcast. I’m a long time listener of Rachel Brathen’s Conversation From The Heart, Oprah’s SuperSoul Conversations, and Ram Dass’s lectures every now and again on Ram Dass Here and Now.
• Try a guided meditation. Currently loving the insight timer app for free guided meditations, a timer, and little reminders to set goals and keep myself accountable.
• Write it out! Get serious with a journal prompt or dapple in creative writing. Don’t know where to start? Write out “today I feel…” as many times as you need to until the words transform to something else. The best way to start journaling is simply committing to keeping the pen to paper for a few consecutive minutes.

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Move

The best way to get out of your head is to get into your body. Bonus points if you can get outside!

• Roll out your mat for some yoga or a HIIT workout. Join our LimitLes Movement community and move with me! You can currently gain access to the whole library of movement for just $5/month.
• Get outside! Walk, run, or skip.. mother nature is a guaranteed mood booster.
• Dance. It’s no secret that my fiance and I love a little kitchen dancing. Believe me when I say whatever it looks like, dancing is good for the soul.
• Shake. If I’m feeling stuck, especially when working from my desk, I like to get up, play a song I’m feeling, and shake. Starting with your hands, moving to your shoulders, down each leg and just wiggling anything that feels good. Shaking meditations may look silly but I promise they saturate your body and mind with so much joy. Try it!

Play

This looks different for everyone, but I challenge you to really connect with your inner child!

• Get into nature. Live near the beach or the mountains? Collect shells or pick up the prettiest leaves you can find. Bring a camera and try your hand at photography for fun.
• Craft. Give macrame, DIY bath bombs, candle making, or DIY holiday decor a try. Bonus- you can gift some of these homemade goodies to friends and family for the holidays!
• Blast a playlist of your all time favorite songs. Grab your hairbrush and karaoke or break it down with a loved one. Soundtrack of choice: The Little Mermaid. Karaoke partner: Nora B for the W.
• Carve out an hour of your day for an at-home mani/pedi with colors that make you happy. Try something a little out-of-the-box if you’re feeling bold and different! Currently crushing on the mani & pedi systems by Olive & June.

Splurge

Do something that makes you genuinely happy. We all know too well how precious time is. Spend it wisely and eat the freaking chocolate. Here is a whole list of priceless inspiration that comes to mind!

• Call an old friend or a grandparent.
• Spend a whole day cooking your favorite meal (if, and only if, you enjoy cooking). If you don’t enjoy cooking, permission to order your favorite meal from your favorite restaurant. Breakfast, lunch, brunch, or dinner – dealer’s choice!
• Hang up and hang out. Request a family meal or movie without phones.
• Gift yourself that item from the local boutique that you’ve had your eye on for a long time. Support a small business to fill your cup and someone else’s!
• Date yourself. Head into town and splurge on a coffee paired with alone time in a park.

Be kind to yourself.

Being a hard worker is both a blessing and a curse. I know the feeling of trying to check one more thing off the never-ending to-do list while in bed at 1am. Believe it or not, a self-care checklist can feel that way too! So the most important thing to remember is to give yourself grace, just like you would give to your mama, your babies, your lover, and your best friend. Life is not about daily accomplishments. It is about the big picture and we’re all just out here doing our best! Be kind to yourself and one another.

Editors note: this blog post was originally published in November 2020 and re-published in November 2021. It has been upated with relevant links and copy for your viewing/shopping pleasure!